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MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL TRAINING
- FOR THE PLAYER :
The goal of mental training is to enable players not only to understand how emotions affect and limit their states of mind, but also to find the causes that lie behind these emotional reactions.
The objective is to enable players to understand how their minds work and to learn about their behavioural reflexes, as well as their habits and thought patterns (via mental programming). They also come to an understanding of their emotional reactions (with emotional intelligence), the causes of these reactions (thanks to mental programming) and also how the latter affect both their physique (via psycho-neural immunology) and their attitudes while they play.
Mental training not only helps to free players from the hold that their thought patterns have over them, but also to change these patterns so that they become a help rather than a hindrance.
When players understand the mechanisms of their emotions, they are no longer subjected to them. On the contrary, they learn to use them to their advantage.
The aim of mental training is to free players from whatever prevents them from playing to the best of their ability in any given situation (via mental restructuring).
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FOR THE COACH
Mental training enables coaches to understand their players’ attitudes better. They become better acquainted with the ways emotions work generally (via emotional intelligence), and more particularly with those of their players
Coaches learn how emotions affect both his players’ mind-sets and physiques (thanks to psycho-neural immunology).
Mental training helps them to understand what causes their players’ emotional trouble or disturbs their concentration. They can then provide solutions that are best adapted to the demands of competition (via the notion of time, creativity, mental restructuring).
It enables coaches to provide their players with whatever they need to assert all their physical, technical and tactical qualities in any situation; in a nutshell: to strike an emotional balance.
Knowing how human beings work helps coaches to understand why their players react in “human” ways while competing. Besides helping them to see how their players’ mental programming contributes or limits their game, it also helps them to understand why they react the way they do.
A knowledge of mental training makes it possible to highlight the causes of certain habits or attitudes (such as stress, fear of playing, over-emotiveness, discouragement etc.) that are incompatible with competitive sports and which spring from inhibitive and destabilizing mental apprehensions. Furthermore, it helps coaches find solutions (via players’ attitudes, thinking or perception of their game) based on an emotional and mental balance in keeping with the demands of competition.
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A METHODOLOGY FOR MENTAL AND ENERGY TRAINING
Step One
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Taking stock of the player’s mind-set
Thoughts associated with sports and competition
What is the athlete thinking: before…
while…
after… competing?
His or her approach: to the game
to the match
to his or her private and professional entourage
to the sport itself
What are his or her: duties
obligations
expectations?
The athlete’s background: financial
social
family
What all this implies for his or her: game
approach to competing
emotional balance
Learning to know oneself in order to accept and appreciate oneself.
Being Conscious of One’s Emotions
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The Role of Emotions : a Description
Positive emotions (nourishing): Optimism, confidence, joy, happiness, serenity…
Negative emotions (disturbing): Pessimism, doubt, inhibitions, fear, guilt….
The impact of emotions on: A player’s mental and physical state
The link between thoughts and emotions
Internal and external causes
The Consequences of Stress
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Psycho-neural immunology
How stress influences the human body and human psychology
Immunity and stress. The role stress plays in our organism. Its importance in certain injuries.
Negative Thinking: Feelings that generate stress. The acts they provoke.
Possible physical repercussions: Injuries (acute, chronic), fatigue, lack of punch
Possible mental repercussions: Lack of confidence, doubt, fear, inhibition, depression, lack of drive, anxiety
Step Two
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Mental Programming
Family Background
How an athlete’s behaviour is influenced by family background: A rigid, permissive, indifferent, demanding or harmonious upbringing…
Family duties linked to the sport: An obligation to get good results; how this affects behaviour
Family judgments: Self-image, reputation, traits of character, atavisms
Social Background
The athlete’s social class: Repercussions (frustration or ease of accomplishment)
The athlete’s origins and how they reflect his or her image
Sports Background
The athlete’s image: Within his own sports entourage (coaches)
Within the sports world (opponents)
The athlete’s physiognomy and what it implies for his or her attitudes and approach to the game
Self-programming
The limits that athletes fix for themselves on an unconscious level (references, seeding, admiration)
Different Reactions
- Acceptation or Resignation
Playing in accordance with the image that “others” have or would like to have of us
Playing with respect to the expectations and demands of one’s entourage
The blocks or limits that this may imply
The pressures and stress that this adds to the game
“Non”-self-respect
- Rebellion or “Playing As If By Reaction”
Very aggressive play (rebellion, revolt)
Playing to prove something to someone
The risks that this makes athletes run (injury, greater fatigue…)
The risk of not playing for the right reasons
The Influence of Mental Programming on Thought Patterns
Contributions and Limitations: what helps to strike a balance
what doesn’t (deviant behaviour)
Subsequent Attitudes and Negative Thinking While Competing
May limit the player in taking the initiative. May generate a loss of self-confidence because solutions appear to be lacking.
Limiting a player’s creativity. Locking him or her up in stereotype play.
Preventing a player from adapting to different situations.
Creating frustration, the feeling of “not going the whole way”.
May give a negative self-image that is very heavy to bear.
Self-flagellation or mental self-destruction: “I’m rubbish, good for nothing…”
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Step Three
The Notion of Time
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“Time does not exist, only the present exists”
Everything happens in the present: We are subjected to the past in the present, subjected to resentments, to good or bad memories; the only way we may influence the future is to act and be active in the present; we play in the present, we think, we take initiatives in the present.
In sport, only the present really counts; it is when everything happens, where everything is decided upon.
The Difference between: Plans and Desires
Experience and Reproduction
Desires are carried out in the present
Plans are carried out in the future
Experience is at the service of the present
Reproduction tends to merely reproduce the past
Creativity
“The Aim of Living is to Create One’s Life”
Intelligence at the service of concepts
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Creative intelligence
The creative player and: The notion of time
Mental programming
Emotions, Feelings, Thoughts and Creativity
Indispensable attitudes for creativity:
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Experiencing –in the present- “the serenity of the present “
Confidence in one’s own capacities, “experience at the service of the present”
Avoiding mental projections, “putting one’s entire intelligence at the service of the present deed”
Being conscious of our mental programming, of how it may help or hinder
Nourishing Emotions: Serenity, joy, confidence and happiness are always experienced in the present
Disturbing Emotions: Fears, disturbing doubts, anguish, depression and stress often spring from anguished projections or past traumatisms
The Influence of Disturbing Emotions on an Athlete’s Health: Injuries, low self-esteem, feelings of inferiority, inhibitions, fatigue…
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The Past
What the player has been through
Experiences
The player’s history
The history of his or her sport
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The Present
Activity
Game
Intelligence
Creativity
Desires
The Futur
Plans
Projections
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Step Four
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Change of Attitude
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Self-questioning :
Distancing
Objectivity
Establishing objectives: Clearly defining goals; the context and limits of self-questioning
Deviant behaviour to be avoided:
Defining oneself negatively
Reducing one’s personality to whatever is being focused on
Losing sight of the goal of self-questioning: “Living a better life”
Feeling guilty
Helpful and Unhelpful Thoughts While Competing
Defining: Thought patterns that favour nourishing emotions
The reasons why we play this sport
What we are looking for when we play
Getting rid of all reflexes that have us thinking negatively (thanks to an understanding of the causes)
Applying This To Our Sport
During the training period
“Thinking Out Loud”:
Becoming aware of the reflexes that lead to negative thought patterns
Simulating emotionally dangerous situations in order to forge a new approach (nourishing)
Developing Creativity
Playing in the present: Free from future projections and reference to the past
Acting on the conscious mind in order to influence the unconscious mind
Goal: Achieving a naturally positive attitude while competing
Playing with nourishing emotions
Playing in a less traumatized way both physically and mentally
Defining What Freedom Is:
With respect to sport
With respect to one’s life in general
Self-respect
Energy Training:
Magnetism: A definition :
What it contributes to the game
Curative and preventative practice
Choosing the right period in the season
Step Five
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Putting Theory into Practice on Court or Field
Training exercises
Behavioural analysis
Simulation
In-game simulations
Behavioural analysis
Applying the Methods to Competitive Matches
The organization of various competitions
Behavioural analysis
New mental and behavioural directions
End of Course Debriefing:
A personal analysis of mental training
XAVIER DELANNOY
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